| Fri. Nov. 14, 2024 – working I’ve been looking at people working. Work. And taking pictures. It’s brought up some common questions about work, like why do we do what we do? I think usually, many of us, do our work because we have to. Because we don’t know what else. Because we need/want the money. Because it’s the responsible thing. But back to the voices, if we’re guided by inner desire to do that work, as in, “I really like this work…” or “I love seeing how the changes…” or “I like the smiles I see…” Admittedly, it can be scary, but… again, life becomes easier if we’re guided by more of these, than by “I have to…” |  |
| Wed. Nov. 12, 2024 – voices A couple of quotes I came across, for the second time (from one movie :), that I saw a few years ago, and picked to see again recently because I did not recall that I had seen it: Humans are butterflies who flutter for a day and think it’s forever. (don’t remember by whom) Open up your heart to destiny. (Des Ex Machina – Latin) I think it’s hard to be open to destiny, because it involves listening to our hearts… the listening part is hard, for me, because it’s usually too many competing ‘voices’, and the true voice gets lost somewhere. It’s hard because it requires courage. It’s hard because it usually entails unknowns. But… when we manage it, when I manage it, it all turns out much better, life happens with ease. |  |
| Mon. Nov. 11, 2024 – knowns & opportunities? Around the last time I wrote, new friends had suggested sticking around with them, working with them. Deciding was a struggle because it was too much of an unknown territory. But I debated it in my head, the possibilities, the consequences, and with that built up some courage… I opened up to the idea, and asked a few questions. I found the answers not satisfying, and decided not to pursue it. I did not like the responses. Sometime has passed since then. A month or so. Looking back, I think it’s okay that I did not pursue it, but I also dismissed it too quickly. I rejected the responses as ‘not good enough… for me…’ when I should have thought more about how I make it work. I think too frequently I dismiss something as not good enough, and later see it as a missed opportunity. People want to help, and like to help. So it would be better if I manage to see suggestions as beneficial opportunities, where I could contribute, and receive. |  |
| Wed. Oct. 16, 2024 – unknowns A new friend is making a strong suggestion–that I join the school he joined some years ago. He is a good person, with good intentions. And, moments ago, he noted that I need to trust. He is right. But… it is hard to trust. It is hard to trust that making a turn off your intended path is a good decision. Go ahead. Take the plunge. Make the turn into another unknown. What about family (not significant other, not children… other family members)? I think they’re doing just fine. What about work? Don’t like it all that much as it is; and, left it already. So, why the hesitation? Because it’s not what I had envisioned. It’s not what I was starting to plan. I had already started planing… to go to this city, and do this work, and then possibly go to this place. It is too far removed from the plans I made. It’s more like a leap than a turn. Can I really make this much of a jump? Do I trust myself to be ok in this environment? |  |
| Sun. Sept. 15, 2024 – vices? A little more about hard work, and vices. Years ago, I had a swimming race. Lost, and often wondered why I lost. Some years later, had another swimming race, for fun. Again lost. But this time something occurred to me. I was not putting in the effort. My arms were swinging, but no muscle, barely pushing the water. This is what hit me. I was not making the effort, maybe thinking I was, but in reality not even close. No heart. This also led me to think of other related characteristics. Impatience when doing something, meaning short on effort. Judging… meaning not making the effort to look deeper. Wanting a little more luck… Make effort. True effort. Put heart into it. I have to remind myself. |  |
| Mon. Sept. 2, 2024 – hard work I don’t think the current stay can amount to a year as I originally considered. Maybe a few weeks. I don’t feel I have it in me. And then there are visa issues, but those can be resolved. It’s more that it’s too much of a change that I’m resisting. Changes in food, surroundings, daily routines. And I got sick, threw me off, feeling physically weak and not up to learning. Or am I being too lazy, too easy on myself? Recently, a friend talked about hard work, that it is worshiping… making effort, giving it all you got. So, if I leave, it would likely be returning to a life of traditional work. Of course there too, the reference to hard work applies. |  |
| Fri. Aug. 23, 2024 – consciousness a bridge! It feels like where I am now is challenging for my body/mind, but good for my soul. A feeling. And where I was a year ago or so, the other way around. It occurred to me that, I, am the in-between, the link between the two, not one or the other, but maybe a mix. I, make decisions, sometimes good for one, sometimes good for the other. Often I feel like I don’t manage a balance, decisions good for both. Maybe time, and patience, would help my body/mind accept and adjust. |  |
| Thu. Aug. 22, 2024 – for the soul?! Met some great people over the past few weeks, and it was a productive time. Now on to “another page” (a friend’s words). A transition from there. The feelings along the way (still transitioning) were angst, but no fear. Unlike about a year ago, I did not fear getting lost or not knowing how to find my way. It was just angst, because it feels like a jump from one life to another, jumping ship to another ship. And, in this moment, this day, I am in between, water below, unsure whether I will reach the other ship, unsure of what the other ship looks like or will be like. It is, potentially, work for my soul, while the body/mind does not like the unfamiliarity and uncertainty. The possibility is up to one year studying, and hopefully contributing. While in a plane, in the sky, It hit me that one year would be a commitment, life in one place; it is not temporary, not a vacation. — I came across a bunch of quotes over the past few weeks. I remember these two: “Life is like a bicycle, to keep your balance you have to keep moving.” Albert Einstein “Keep looking at the sunshine and the shadows will fall behind you.” (don’t remember by whom) |  |
| Tue July 30, 2024 – rise, and shine? I’ve been traveling a bit. In one place, I noticed I was waking up groggy, every day. Bed was good. Food was good. People were great. So what gives? It led me to question whether it could be related to the area I was in. The geographical area. Maybe it wasn’t the right place for me. Maybe we were not a good fit. So I am trying to take notice. Right now I’m in a different region. Believe it or not, waking up is good. It’s lighter, despite uncertainties and stresses. Can it really be this simple? Can it? I don’t know. But why not. Maybe it’s one factor??! |  |
| Tue July 29, 2024 – swapping… …an experience? A few weeks ago I dwelt on past decisions. Loads of them, just about any I did not like. Common enough for many. Going to place X instead of Y, or going for job/work A instead of B, or saying this instead of that… Then, out of nowhere, came another thought, a question. Very simple. Would I exchange that experience, at place X, or work A… would I give up that memory, the memory of being in that place, in exchange for… my answer was a vehement NO. I would not. I imagined turning back time, and not having the experiences I chose. It felt less. I made those choices consciously, after plenty of thought, because I very much wanted to go to so and so place. And, granted, there were consequences–e.g. I lost out on better/bigger opportunities with work; there are good friends I no longer see. Yet, I would not give up seeing the places I saw, and would certainly not give up meeting and talking with the ‘new’ people with whom I crossed paths along the way. Maybe a win and a loss are inherent in every choice, along with not knowing the depths of them. |  |
| Tue. June 11, 2024 – shifting Every time I get ready to travel, it feels like it is a shift, like I’m changing, or going to be changing. Like moving to the next something, without necessarily knowing exactly what that next something is. In spite of all that could be gained, sometimes it feels scary, as in uprooting and losing what I had built over the past… months or weeks or even days, losing connections and bonds I was experiencing, and going to the unknown. Unknowns are not fun for all. |  |
| Sun. May 12, 2024 – languages We have so many languages, and so many scripts, it is hard to believe. We take pride in them. We make them up and change them along the way, and invent new words. With scripts, scripts evolve from older ones; others we make up intentionally to serve a need. It is just as amazing to wonder how long it must’ve taken to evolve each language into what it is today. Not a few years or decades or centuries… thousands of years. I’ve come across a bunch of languages. Many share words, and scripts, but still have characteristics specific to them. Some have a ‘good morning’, others don’t, many have a ‘let’s go’, and most have different ways of expressing a salutation, a ‘hello’. |  |
| Wed. May 1, 2024 – travels Travels can liberate. They encourage us to adjust, and re-adjust. They make us dislike our surroundings, then question our reactions, and re-orient, and appreciate. Traveling can be liberating from comforts and long-lived misconceptions. From how and what to eat, to how to go the bathroom; from how to get around, to what is important. An apparent downside… long-term traveling weakens relationships :(. |  |
| Sat. Apr. 27, 2024 – mountains Something about mountains! During a couple of weeks between and around mountains, I recalled how special they are. They draw awe, and peace; inspire to be ‘higher’ (no pun), and content. I remember a spiritual leader saying, you don’t have to be on a mountain, alone, to be spiritual or to meditate. Maybe true, but I still think it’s different on a mountain. That was last week. Now I am in a different region, steppes, flat and long and can see for miles, short grass and little yellow flowers. Winds howl. It’s cold, starts around 30 and gets to 55 or so degrees (-1 and 13). |  |
| Fri. Apr. 12, 2024 – focus/goal Still at it :). Over the past few months I’ve been visiting people, making new friends, and touring cities, ruins, and sites I have not been to before. These meetings, journeys and excursions have been illuminating and challenging, helpful and fun. After a couple more trips, a couple more months, I’d like to decide on a goal and a focus. If traveling, I’d like to travel or visit a spot as part of a step toward that goal. It would have to be a strong goal, something with which I have a strong connection, and in which I have conviction. Otherwise, I worry that I would quickly lose interest, and then roam again. |  |
| Sun. April 7, 2024 – running away I’ve been staying at a site that I’m not liking all that much, so have wanted to leave; but, I also feel that my reasoning is not sound, that I would be choosing to escape rather than allowing myself to adjust and learn. In fact, the place is good, and the people around are kind and helpful. My reasons for the dislike are related to wanting respect, wanting to feel like ‘somebody.’ Too egotistical. So I am going to stick it out, on the basis that I ended up here for good reasons and should allow the circumstances live their course. This respect thing, in my case, might be an issue related to self-worth. I should be utterly happy with myself, and trusting, such that I would not look for or need respect from others. |  |
| Tue. April 2, 2024 – meditation Did a 10-day mediation course, silent meditation. No phones or texting, no writing, not even eye contact. This was following recommendations at different times from a couple of friends. It was good, but also hard, physically and mentally. The silence was good… a good change of pace; but the sitting part, in lotus pose, for prolonged periods, was a challenge. Besides that, it was a great practice to take in sensations, and thoughts, as they are, and not to react to them. Awareness, and Equanimity. |  |
| Wed. March 13, 2024 – trust I’ve rarely trusted. I think trusting others is relatively easy in comparison to trusting… the ‘universe.’ I’ve found it hard, probably because of how things, big and small, go wrong. But, when I’ve managed to just consider it, like dipping a toe in a pool, it was a tremendous relief, with evasive lightness and happiness in sight. Trusting that it is right, that ‘I am’ in good hands, eludes many of us, certainly me. But, I think it’s important to work on it. Happiness is within reach, if only we trust that all is right and good. This alone leads to a lot less worrying. Doesn’t mean we don’t do the work, or jumping off something thinking actual wings will grow immediately. So what does it mean, exactly? Admittedly that is hard to articulate, but how about simply, I, you… are on the right track?! |  |
| Tue. February 6, 2024 – kids Spent about a month and a half primarily with kids, teaching them, and also learning from them. Patience for sure was one characteristic. Some were extremely active in classes; some naturally had their own ideas of what they wanted to do. Most loved writing on the board, and erasing, regardless of what I planned for the class. One commonality: their smiles. Absolutely incredible. | |
| Fri. November 10, 2023 – freedom(?) Not just traveling, but living almost nomadic days, hopping from one spot to another, staying put for only a few weeks. Not quite nomadic, not living in tents… but also not attached to a house, or to one specific job. It feels like detaching from those chains. It feels good. Is it freedom? Coming across friends who are in their later years. They know loads, and still do loads. They are more capable than many with fewer years; yet, watching them, and their uncertainties, often on their own, allows fears of age to surface. Old age, and solitude, seem scary. These friends started free, and are still free, with few attachments. Freedom is scary. |   |
| Tue. October 31, 2023 – climbing trees Some weeks ago I decided to visit an olive farm in Italy, and to help with olive harvesting. But collecting olives manually is part stripping from branches while standing on the ground, and part stripping while on the tree…. meaning climbing trees was likely. My first thought was I don’t climb trees, likely will not and would find some other way. But when it came to it, I climbed, and climbed, as high as I could go. I watched a clear sky from the top; came across a couple of bird nests; watched branches move with a breeze. One time in particular I was so surprised when reaching the top and looking at loads of deep purple olives waiting to be collected and be part of the harvest, it was like finding a treasure while on a hike. |  |
| Sun. October 16, 2023 – pesto Learned it. It’s incredibly simple, and also fun to make. Basil, some nut (usually pine nuts… but this part is strange because pine nuts don’t grow in Italy), and olive oil. Delicious! |  |
| Sun. October 16, 2023 – a feeling Every now and then a strange feeling comes over a person, of unease. Recently felt that, then came across a person who challenged me in some ways… felt annoyed, or offended at something they said. I think that unease is something of a heads-up, not necessarily to avoid, not necessarily about belonging or not, but maybe more about preparing to be more patient, or to listen more. | |
| Thu. October 12, 2023 – belonging I spent sometime with a new friend, helping with their new home. It was for about one week. During that week, I totally felt I belonged there, and wanted to be there; but, it was temporary. One week. Short-lived. Leaving was a little tough, in part I think because leaving meant severing the tie, and then starting with a new one. I like Italy. I like its language, food, mountains, trains, olives, farms, tumultuous history (I suppose this part fits anywhere)… In some ways, I feel I belong there, because… I like it. And, again, being near olive trees. This is indescribable. But the language is new and would take sometime to pick up. Same with how things are done… administrative, banking, paperwork, politics, negotiating prices. There is one idea that stands out, though. Feeling at ease. It’s simple, and it’s one difference between one place and another. I have felt that. Just have to make the effort, and hold on to it. |  |
| Sun. October 7, 2023 – olive plant Working with trees is beautiful. Been clearing around olive trees that were neglected for years. Branches, vines, thorns… then, it’s just the olive tree. The wood is incredibly strong, apparently because the tree grows slowly, patiently. That’s something… a lesson. |  |
| Sun. October 1, 2023 – life, a voice, and a choice Wondering about Abraham, yep, that Abraham. The story goes along the lines of being told to leave his life, his family, and adopt a different approach to life. To cross a river, likely both literally and metaphorically. Imagine him hearing that voice as an inner voice. “Go, Abram,” his name before it’s changed, “go, and believe in the One.” What would you think if he heard something like that? What would you say, to yourself…? “That’s crazy! Why would I go? What would I leave my beautiful land and family?” There is a response. “There is milk and honey on the other side.” “There is nothing but desert on the other side. It’s a death trap.” “It’s a different kind of milk and honey, it’s a promise for a better and sweeter life…” And off he goes. On a journey. Maybe taking it a day at a time, like we often suggest to ourselves. The reality is that it’s so hard to know when our inner voices, our intuition, is leading us in the right direction, or astray. |  |
